Kristin Cabot, an HR executive caught on the big screen at a Coldplay concert, has described how the harassment has never ended since the viral moment. Cabot, who was seen hugging Andy Byron, the former CEO of tech company Astronomer, has spoken publicly about the consequences of that night.
Following Byron's resignation and the firm announcing he would be investigated, Cabot stepped down as chief people officer, feeling the weight of public scrutiny. Now, she finds herself struggling to find another job, claiming she has been told she is unemployable.
The viral video, which captured the couple swaying to music and then abruptly ducking out of sight, led to a whirlwind of online attention, with Coldplay's Chris Martin joking about their moment on stage. While the internet moved on, Cabot faced an uphill battle as she became the subject of online jokes and harsh accusations.
In statements to major newspapers, Cabot opened up about the severe repercussions, including threats and invasive personal attacks. I became a meme, I was the most maligned HR manager in HR history, she told The Times. The fallout has not only impacted her professional life, but also strained her family relationships, as her children have been embarrassed by the incident.
Reflecting on the situation, Cabot acknowledged a 'crush' on Byron but maintained that the two were never in a sexual relationship. She took responsibility for her actions that night but criticized the disproportionate scrutiny and abusive comments she received, particularly from other women.
Despite the pain it has caused her and her family, Cabot continues to seek healing and understanding as she navigates the difficult landscape of public perception post-viral fame.
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