In brief
The European Court of Human Rights underlined that refusal to engage in sexual relations cannot be grounds for divorce fault, a pivotal step towards recognizing women's rights and ending outdated marital duty concepts.
In a groundbreaking ruling, the European Court of Human Rights (ECHR) has sided with a 69-year-old French woman, identified as Ms. H.W, affirming her right to refuse sex without facing blame for her divorce. The court's unanimous decision announced on Thursday deemed France's consideration of sexual refusal in divorce cases as a violation of her right to respect for private and family life per European human rights legislation, concluding a protracted legal battle lasting nearly a decade.Celebrating the ruling, Ms. H.W. highlighted its significance in combating "rape culture" and advancing the notion of consent in marital relations. This landmark case has ignited a wider discourse about marital consent and women's rights throughout France, with advocates underscoring the need for legal reform in alignment with contemporary understandings of consent.Lilia Mhissen, the attorney representing H.W., praised the ruling for dismantling archaic notions of "marital duty," urging French courts to adopt more progressive stances regarding consent and gender equality. Supporting this view, women's rights organizations criticized French judiciary practices, denouncing their tendency to uphold outdated stereotypes surrounding marriage.Ms. H.W., a resident of Le Chesnay near Paris, married JC in 1984, having four children, including a daughter who requires constant care. Over the years, their relationship soured, particularly after the birth of their first child, and Ms. H.W. began to face physical and verbal abuse from her husband starting in 2002. Following years of traumatic experiences, she ceased sexual relations with him in 2004 and subsequently sought a divorce in 2012.Although Ms. H.W. did not dispute the divorce itself, she contested the grounds upon which it was granted. In 2019, her appeal was dismissed by a Versailles court that sided with her husband's claims. The French Court of Cassation, the nation's highest court, later dismissed her appeal without providing any explanation. This led Ms. H.W. to bring her case before the ECHR in 2021.Highlighting the delicate balance of government intervention in personal matters, the ECHR emphasized that "marital duties" as defined by French law overlook the essential element of consent in sexual relationships. The court's ruling established that entering marriage does not equate to permitting sexual relations indefinitely, thereby acknowledging the seriousness of marital rape.This decision arrives at a pivotal moment in France as discussions about consent gain traction, particularly in light of Dominique Pélicot's well-publicized trial for drugging his wife and subjecting her to sexual violence. The case, which saw Pélicot and approximately 50 others convicted, has raised pressing questions regarding the adequacy of current French legal frameworks surrounding consent.Feminist groups champion the ECHR ruling as a crucial impetus for modernizing French laws and societal attitudes. Recent legislative reviews by French MPs have even proposed incorporating non-consent into the legal definition of rape, insisting that consent must always be granted freely and can be withdrawn at any moment.




